[Music]
[音乐]
and I got a call and he called me
我接到一个电话，他打电话给我
saying his son fell,
和儿子谈话时摔倒
I
我到了
got there and I saw him on the floor, there
我到了那里，看到他躺在地上，就像那样
was blood here, right? There was blood on the edge of
这里有血，对吧？边缘也有血。
his mouth here, yes,
他的嘴在这里是的
maybe. It could be something here that I
也许这里有一些东西
wasn't feeling much pain,
我感觉不到太多疼痛，对吗？
right? Anything?
任何事物
Anthony grew up in our city, not
安东尼在我们城市长大，对吧？
in the middle of Brazil, he
位于巴西中部
's a very playful boy, a
所以他是一个非常爱玩的男孩
very good boy with a very good heart and
非常好的男孩，心地善良，
everyone likes him, he's a person who
每个人都喜欢他，他是一个
wherever he goes he makes friends
无论去哪里他都会结交朋友
and at 16 years old he was already his father, right? 16
16 岁时他就已经是他的父亲了，对吗？
years old he was already his father, I
几年前他是他的父亲
received a call from my mother,
我接到了妈妈的电话
Antony, saying that she was pregnant and
安东尼（右）说她怀孕了，
I was worried and I said, oh my
我很担心，然后说哇
God, how I didn't imagine being pregnant like this,
女士，你是什么意思，怀孕了，我没有想到
right?
正确的？
I was really scared,
我非常害怕
yes, I was afraid, the mentality of a
是的，我害怕孩子气
heavy boy and always thinking, right? I did
很沉重，而且总是在思考，对吗？
n't go see her, so I didn't
我没有去看她，所以我没有
know what to say or do
知道该说什么 知道该做什么
[Music] He
was born really big,
他出生时体型很大
the other one is like this Ours has no
另一个是这样的，我们没有
experience when the other one went to pick him
当他去接他的时候，体验到了另一种
up for the first time. Ours didn't have any
第一次放在我的腿上 我们没有
experience with no
毫无经验
joy in the house when you everyone
当你们都
went there to visit him later
我本来打算稍后去看他
I had to change this whole strategy
我必须改变整个策略
these things to really focus on the
这些事情需要真正关注
family in the things you understand
家庭在理解的事情
friend
朋友
that could come
可能会发生
I had responsibility
我有责任
that I work with music I work as a
我从事音乐工作
singer as a musician here, right?
歌手作为音乐家在这里
When I was away, right? When I
当我不在的时候当我
worked away to be able to
在外面工作能够
take care of things, I
照顾我感觉我感觉很多的事情
missed him a lot, right? I also missed
我想念他，我也非常想念他
being close to him doing things
和他一起做事
because every day that passed she was
因为每一天她都会
learning. one thing and I was away there
学到了一件事，我就出局了
were times when I would stay away for up to 30 days and
有时候我会待上长达 30 天
then come back because we were
稍后再回来，因为我们
doing things around Brazil so at that time it
当时在巴西
was a complicated time it was a very difficult time
这是一个复杂的时期 这是一个
非常困难
when he started going to school was
当他开始上学的时候
because I have a very good memory of it,
因为我的记忆力很好
he was always waiting to pick
他总是等着接电话
him up, right? I would go pick him up, he
他就在那里，我要去找他
would hide, he would be sad, he
他一直躲藏并且很伤心
would be upset.
我很沮丧
I've thought several times about trying
我曾多次想过尝试
something else, some other job,
其他事情 其他工作
some kind of thing to being able to
某种东西能够
be closer, right?
再靠近一点吧？
When the other was five years old, he was
当另一个五岁时，就是他
the one who separated from his mother. We
所以我们和他的母亲分开了
decided to do this because It was a bit
决定这样做，因为有点
complicated, the issue with my work is
我的工作问题很复杂
that I wasn't very absent
我没有遗漏很多
see if it took him a while to be able to
看看他是否需要一段时间才能
assimilate this situation and he also said
吸收这种情况，并说
that he didn't want to be close to his family
不想和家人亲近
something
某物
nothing nothing prepares us to be a
没有什么可以让我们成为
father so we don't think it will be
父亲，那么我们认为不会
possible to be a father if we are not,
如果我们不是父亲，就有可能成为父亲
we have to try if it happens
如果发生这种情况，我们必须尝试
we have to fight to be able to be a
我们必须努力才能团结一致
good father
好父亲
so it is
就是这样
at 11 or 12 years old or so except for Anthony,
安东尼十一二岁左右
we decided to move to London.
我们决定搬到伦敦
I thought about, I don't know, giving
我想我不知道，它给了生命
him a better life, for my son,
对他来说对我儿子来说就更好了
for my family,
为了我的家人
right? That day, the day I left
就在那天 我离开的那天
Brazil, was very difficult. I didn't know
我不知道巴西的比赛有多难
when I would be able to to be coming
当我可能来自
again, right? And I have a memory. Wow,
新的权利，我有记忆我们的
he cried a lot, he was also very
他哭了很多，他也非常
sad.
伤心
Yes, here, the beginning, when I arrived in
是的，这是我刚到的时候
London, everything was new, too. I did
伦敦对我来说也是全新的，所以我
a lot of work outside of music, too.
除了音乐之外还有很多工作
I felt this, it's the lack of being able to be there. With
我觉得这是缺乏能够与
him, I managed to do it. I always talked to him
他在那里我确实跟他谈过了
总是
about how much I missed him, and
我也很想念他
about everything, and I said that one day he
一切权利，并说有一天他
would be here. with me, right? He always spoke,
会和我在一起，对吧？总是说
always putting his head in Oh, I
总是把头放在我身上啊
ask that
我请求我的
my life from now on Try to
我的生活现在尝试
make the most of it. Right? His son
充分利用它，他的儿子
also really missed being close to
我也非常想念亲近
him growing up doing things because
他成长过程中所做的事情是因为
every day that passes she was learning something.
她每天都在学习新的东西
事物
So it was a bit difficult,
所以这有点困难
really, taking care of him when he was
像以前一样照顾他
younger because I was really
因为我确实是
young,
非常新
everything is wonderful now, right?
那里现在的一切都充满奇迹，对吧？
After that, right?
稍后吧？
It hurts a lot? [
很疼
Music]
You guys who is a new father you are a piece of advice
你们这些新手爸爸，你们是一条建议
that I give to young fathers would be to
我给年轻父母的
hold on tight there you can hold on tight
坚持住 你可以坚持住
Then try to be as positive as possible and it
然后尝试尽可能保持积极态度。
will work out
将会成功
I love my father very much
我很爱我的父亲
he was the father he wasn't when he was
他是一个父亲，但他不是
younger, right? I know I can always
年轻一点吧，我知道我可以一直
count on him.
像这样依赖他
After the accident, a lot of things changed
事故发生后，很多事情发生了变化
in my life.
在我的生活中
I'm already married
我已经结婚了
and I'm still 18 years old. You didn't think
我还只有 18 岁，你不这么认为吗
I was going to do this so soon, but we're
我本来打算很快就这么做，但我们
such a sweetheart that we've never I saw something I had never
这是我从未见过的爱情
felt before after that
之前 之后 感觉
I'm becoming a real man now
我现在正在成为一个真正的男人